“My Ideal Man”
By: Nikki Joyce Ordiz
World was full of imagination, we make our
own love story right? Like the story of Florante who falls in love with such a
simple woman named Laura. Fantasy love
story that we have seen in a movie, have proven to us that each individual was
not born to be alone, but born to find their destiny. All of us do want someone
who can love us back, the way we love them.
Love can be defined into several meaning, but one thing about love that
caught my attention is about loving your special someone. When I enter the
stage of adolescence, there are things that comes in my mind, like “what I
really want for my ideal man?” My ideal man can be simply classifying into 3
qualities like humble, God fearing, and responsible
Humble, it is because I do
not want an arrogant person or a windy person; a humble person is also a happy
person. They can take joy in their life and what God has called them to do,
regardless of what the world thinks about it.
I like a humble person because they are true to their selves, they do
not have second thoughts before asking a help from someone, they know their
limitation and they accept it.
A God fearing person is a
kind of person who had a deep respect to our almighty father. He can easily identify his decision whether
it is good or bad. He is a religious person.
A god fearing person does not know to hurt girls’ feelings because he
knows that he would receive a hard punishment from God.
The last one is a responsible;
a man who does not know his responsibility is not a real man. I do not need a good looking but
irresponsible man in my life, physical appearance is useless if you are
irresponsible inside because I can picture out that I do not have a bright
future with that kind of man. A simple
but responsible man is more than enough for me.
All woman wants simple but
happy family living in the future. We
choose a man who deserves to stare us when we walk into the aisle and will hold
our hand in front of the altar while saying “I do”. Dreaming for our future
does not mean that we will always stuck in a fantasy love story, but dreaming
can also experience in reality if we imagine with trust and limitation.
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